我注意到我不再买我女朋友的鲜花了。我现在正在考虑它，但是一离开工作，我就会分心，然后我会在地铁回家之前再考虑一下。我能听到你说“嗯嗯”，我明白了 – 我心疼！
实际上，也许这是女性听不到的东西。男人对事情感到不好。我们可能 似乎 就像我们没有，但我们做到了。事实上，我对一群朋友进行了调查，以找出最常见的原因 – 他们的答案可能让你感到惊讶。
他们是超级严厉的
“我对批评她的饮食或锻炼习惯感到内疚，”一位受访者说。他并不是唯一一个（反复）说过他希望自己没有说过的人。无论是关于你的“工作/生活平衡”，一件装备，还是（上帝保佑）你的身体，这是一个袖手旁观的评论，他感到内疚，并且可能知道你在脑海中对这个评论感到困惑。
他们有一些……呃……自爱的秘密
我一遍又一遍地听到同样的话：“我感到最内疚的是什么？等她离开这一天所以我可以抽搐。”是的，我们喜欢和你发生性关系…但偶尔（或者在某些情况下，偶尔也不会这样），一个人会想要一点点“独处时间”。
虽然我想避免判断我的同伴，但是在这个小组中有一些人带着内疚感回到我身边，因为在其中一次会议中，他们在想着他们的伴侣的朋友，姐妹或表弟的时候匆匆离开。这些绅士们说，他们绝不会在一百万年内表现出这样的冲动，但是当他们想到自己的想象时，他们会想到为什么不呢？
他们并不像过去那样亲热
我在人际关系中谈过的许多男人都陷入了我的内疚之中：“我曾经是如此自发和浪漫，现在我是一个忙碌的混蛋”类别。我不是唯一一段时间没有买花的人。其他人说，他们以后常常在下班后拿起糖果，或者当他们外出旅行时拿一点纪念品。少数人习惯做惊喜约会之夜 – 精心制作的晚餐/饮料/特殊活动 – 我们从未做过的活动。这些天他们没有。为什么？ “我总是想让小东西向她展示我爱她……一张卡片，糖果，一些小东西，所以她知道我在想她。随着工作，生活和孩子的磨砺，我倾向于忘记。我为此感到内疚。“
他们错过了约会
许多忠诚的男人不得不错过一些重要日子：你的生日，情人节，重大工作活动，你的周年纪念日。无论你们的关系中存在多么重要的日期，如果你的家伙因工作或工作而无法成功，他肯定会在很长一段时间内感到愧疚。你不需要说什么;他知道他做错了，理想情况下会尝试补偿你。
他们习惯做“慢褪色”
当我探究内疚时，那些新近处于关系中的家伙给了我一条毯子“我过去常常是一个混蛋”。许多人觉得他们曾带领女性。有人说，“我为每个周末与我联系的那个女孩感到内疚，但并没有真正看到自己约会（即使我完全看起来像我们想的那样）。”此外：缓慢的褪色 – 一个人留下更长和更长的文本和电话之间的响应时间，最终目的是永远不再回复 – 这是一个标志性的举动，许多新谈话的人在回想起时感到内疚。
所以代表我们所有人：我们很抱歉。我们下次会尝试记住花朵。
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As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:
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As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:
“I noticed that I no longer buy flowers for my girlfriend. I am now considering it, but as soon as I leave work, I get distracted and then I will think about it again before I get on the subway home. I can hear you say “uh-huh”, I understand – it hurts! In fact, maybe this is something that women dont hear. Men feel bad about things. We may seem like we dont, but we do. In fact, I surveyed a group of friends to find out the most common reasons – their answers may surprise you. They are super harsh “I feel guilty about criticizing her eating or exercise habits,” one respondent said. He is not the only one who has said he wishes he hadnt. Whether its about your “work/life balance,” a piece of equipment, or (God forbid) your body, this is a sideline comment that he feels guilty about and may know you are confused about. They have some… um… self-loving secrets I heard the same thing over and over again: “What do I feel most guilty about? Waiting for her to leave so I can jerk off.” Yes, we like to have sex with you… but occasionally (or in some cases, not at all), a guy will want a little “alone time.” While I want to avoid judging my peers, some of the guys in this group came back to me with guilt because they hastily left when they were thinking about their partners friend, sister, or cousin during one of the meetings. These gentlemen said they would never act on such an impulse in a million years, but when they think about their own imagination, they wonder why not? Theyre not as affectionate as they used to be Many men Ive talked to in relationships have fallen into my guilt trap: “I used to be so spontaneous and romantic, now Im a busy jerk” category. Im not the only one who hasnt bought flowers in a while. Others say they often pick up candy after work or take a little souvenir when they travel. A few are accustomed to doing surprise date nights – a carefully crafted dinner/drink/special activity – something weve never done before. These days they dont. Why? “I always want to show her little things to show her I love her… a card