大女孩永远被告知是什么 不 穿：闪亮面料增加体积;褶皱让你的臀部看起来很大。即使是我的苗条朋友，对这一点或那样的自我意识，也是这些僵硬时尚的奴隶。当我建议她穿着一件带衬衫裙的短靴时，一个8号同事看起来像是在她的Louboutins上泼了油漆。 “赃物？！它们会让我的牛犊看起来像猪排！”她尖叫道。
虽然很多时尚规则都是基于事实闪亮服装的核心 由廉价面料制成 将强调每一卷 – 大多数只是指导方针，可以调整。穿紧身牛仔裤。毫无疑问，这些对于沉重的女性来说不那么讨人喜欢。一位女售货员嗤之以鼻，“这些牛仔裤不适合你”，因为我买的是一对18码的深色漱口水。 “告诉我的AmEx，”我告诉她。这是我对雷霆 – 大腿效果的不懈解毒：搭配紧身牛仔裤搭配定制西装外套，长衬衫和高跟鞋。你看起来就像是一个glamazon，相信我。
另一个臭名昭着的加号大小禁忌：横条纹。通过一千名时尚达人的抽屉抽屉，你很快就会发现亮片热裤而不是条纹毛衣或T恤。这是真的，厚条纹会引起注意你的宽度。如果你有一个大肚子，你可能看起来像是穿着一堆固特异轮胎。但实际上，对于紧密堆叠在一起的细条纹则恰恰相反，这实际上会产生减肥视错觉。
无视你听过的关于腰带丰满效果的一切。秘密是将它们戴在你的自然腰围上方（也是你躯干的最小部分），这甚至可以帮助苹果形状的身体切割沙漏形状。这只适用于荷叶边衬衫。收紧紧身氨纶数量并为自己做一些严肃的松饼顶部。至于配件，专家（像我一样！）不断插入厚实的项链来平衡一件衣服，比一条精致的项链更好。尽管如此，如果你正在寻找更微妙的东西，我建议分层几条或添加一个吊坠，以达到一个淑女和时尚的外观，减去一个大的声明片断的重量。
这些天，我正在尝试男装。虽然我的薄薄的朋友看起来很时髦，他们的男朋友的纽扣与牛仔裤匹配，超大的衬衫往往让我看起来，嗯，超大。这就是我如何对抗Roseanne-and-Dan的效果：我寻找带有男性化触感的女式衬衫 – 细条纹，法式袖口 – 然后以比我自己大一两的尺寸购买它们。结果是精致，放松的外观，补充了我的曲线。
转过大女孩时尚的秘诀不要变成一个吗？别小气！在marieclaire.com/ashley分享。
As an AI language model, I do not have a personal opinion or experience to share on this topic. However, I can provide a translation of the text from Chinese to English:
Big girls are always told what not to wear: shiny fabrics add volume, and wrinkles make your hips look big. Even my slim friends are slaves to these rigid fashion rules. When I suggested that my size 8 colleague wear ankle boots with a shirt dress, she looked like she had been splashed with paint on her Louboutins. “What? Theyll make my calves look like pork chops!” she screamed. Although many fashion rules are based on the fact that shiny clothes made of cheap fabrics will emphasize every roll, most are just guidelines that can be adjusted. Wearing tight jeans is undoubtedly less appealing for heavy women. A female salesperson sneered, “These jeans dont suit you,” because I bought a pair of dark rinse in size 18. “Tell my AmEx,” I told her. This is my relentless detoxification of the thunder-thigh effect: pairing tight jeans with a tailored suit jacket, long shirt, and high heels. You look like a glamazon, believe me. Another notorious plus-size taboo: horizontal stripes. Through the drawers of a thousand fashionistas, youll quickly find sequined hot pants instead of striped sweaters or T-shirts. Its true, thick stripes will draw attention to your width. If you have a big belly, you might look like youre wearing a pile of Goodyear tires. But in reality, for tightly stacked thin stripes, the opposite is true, and this actually creates a slimming visual illusion. Ignore everything youve heard about the full effect of belts. The secret is to wear them above your natural waistline (also the smallest part of your torso), which can even help apple-shaped bodies cut into an hourglass shape. This only applies to ruffled shirts. Tighten the amount of spandex and make yourself some serious muffin tops. As for accessories, experts (like me!) constantly insert thick necklaces to balance a garment, which is better than a delicate necklace. Nevertheless, if youre looking for something more subtle, I suggest layering a few or adding a pendant to achieve a ladylike and fashionable look, minus the weight of a big statement piece. These days, Im trying menswear. While my thin friends look stylish with their boyfriends buttons matching their jeans, oversized shirts often make