Fifty Shades Darker 2月10日在影院上映,克里斯蒂安和安娜的爆炸性和破坏性的性爱场面将再次激起全世界的观众。
由于模仿是最真诚的奉承形式,我们都必须开始 某处, MarieClaire.com要求四位色情小说家深入了解是什么让这些性爱场面变得渺小 – 以及如何将小说变成事实。根据作者Tiffany Reisz的说法,你需要五种工具才能获得惊人的性爱?紧张,前戏,情感,创造力和无畏。让我们分解吧。
“即使你打开也可以通过简单的退缩来制造紧张。这是否意味着从手动刺激中取出休息并在他们的脖子上串吻;或者做一个性感的小脱衣舞;或者在你之前脱掉一件衣服更进一步 – 你可以建立你的唤醒 和 为你的性生活增添俏皮感。基本上,可以通过花时间来促进紧张。“ –Rachel Kramer Bussel,编辑 年度最佳女性情色 系列
“性爱的实际机制相当简单:插槽B中的标签A(或者,插槽A中的标签A,我喜欢插槽A)。所以,如果你想为你的性别增加情趣,那就用对话来做。我还记得水晶般清澈的东西,一个前男友在一天晚上在行为不端的时候在我的耳边低语。言语有力量。人们在性生活中说话,在任何其他类型的互动中,他们永远无法通过他们的嘴唇。“ –Tiffany Reisz,国际畅销书作家 原罪人 系列
“而不是简单地冲进性爱,说’我要去[*填空] *。你甚至可以通过说“我会在你最喜欢的地方舔你……如果你很好”来增加赌注,并通过让对方保持优势来增加紧张感,希望他们足够好获得奖励。“ –雷切尔克莱默巴塞尔
“当你和某人在卧室里时,你就是最容易受到伤害的人。即使你拥有狂野而疯狂的摇摆性,你也可能是最暴露的。将你的情绪加倍并用来增强性爱。不要隐藏它们。如果你感觉好玩,那就建立在角色扮演的基础上。感觉好斗吗?告诉你的伴侣你想要什么 – 或者你想对他们做什么 – 明确细节。然后去做。“ –Tara Sue Me, 纽约时报 畅销书作者 顺从系列 和 机架的经验教训
“Vanilla只是意味着不是淫(即没有BDSM)。你可以通过香草性来获得非常有创意。阅读彼此的色情故事以进入心情。穿上服装。在酒吧单独见面并假装你是完全陌生的人。有很多方法可以创造性 – 即使没有彼此联系起来。在你尝试之前你永远不知道你是否喜欢某种东西,并且在床上保持开放的心态是很重要的。但是如果你的伴侣向你施加压力迫使你推动极限事情已经走得太远了。建立安全健康的限制,然后在线路内玩。只有在你们两个准备好的时候才到外面去。“ –蒂芙尼赖斯
“要足够自信地询问你想要什么,让别人知道什么对你不起作用。我已经给读者发电子邮件,告诉我他们真的想尝试他们在我的书中读到的一些东西,但是他们的伴侣甚至不知道他们正在读“那种东西。”好吧,体验你的欲望的一种保证方式就是让你的伴侣保守秘密。除非你提起,否则你无法知道他们的感受。大多数时候,你的伴侣可能会在船上。他们甚至可能一直在抑制自己的欲望,不敢告诉你。最坏的情况是,如果你的幻想不是他们的,你已经进行了讨论,也许可以找到一个妥协来翻转你的交换机。最后,我们大多数人有肮脏的头脑。与你正在睡觉的人分享你的。“ –罗尼罗兰, 纽约时报 畅销书作者 全天候 和 爱你容易
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As an AI language model, I do not have personal opinions or preferences. However, I can provide a translation of the given text in English:
“Fifty Shades Darker will be released in theaters on February 10th, and Christian and Anas explosive and destructive sex scenes will once again excite audiences worldwide. As imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, we must all start somewhere, MarieClaire.com asked four erotic novelists to delve into what makes these sex scenes so small – and how to turn fiction into reality. According to author Tiffany Reisz, you need five tools to get amazing sex: tension, foreplay, emotion, creativity, and fearlessness. Lets break it down. “Even if you can create tension by simply withdrawing. Does this mean taking a break from manual stimulation and kissing them on the neck; or doing a sexy little striptease; or taking off one piece of clothing before you – you can build your arousal and add playfulness to your sex life. Basically, tension can be promoted by spending time.” -Rachel Kramer Bussel, editor of the Best Womens Erotica series. “The actual mechanics of sex are quite simple: tag A in slot B (or, tag A in slot A, I like slot A). So if you want to add spice to your sex, do it with dialogue. I remember something crystal clear, a former boyfriend whispered in my ear one night when he was behaving badly. Words have power. People talk in sex, in any other type of interaction, they can never get through their lips.” -Tiffany Reisz, international bestselling author of the Original Sin series. “Instead of just rushing into sex, saying Im going to [*fill in the blank]*. You can even increase the stakes by saying Ill lick you in your favorite place…if youre good, and increase the tension by keeping your partner in suspense, hoping theyre good enough to get the reward.” -Rachel Kramer Bussel. “When youre in the bedroom with someone, youre the most vulnerable person. Even if you have wild and crazy swinging sex, you may be the most exposed. Double your emotions and use them to enhance sex. Dont hide them. If you feel playful, build on role-playing. Feeling combative? Tell your partner what you want – or what you want to do to them – in explicit detail. Then go do it.” -Tara Sue Me
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As an AI language model, I do not have personal opinions or preferences. However, I can provide a translation of the given text in English:
“Fifty Shades Darker will be released in theaters on February 10th, and Christian and Anas explosive and destructive sex scenes will once again excite audiences worldwide. As imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, we must all start somewhere, MarieClaire.com asked four erotic novelists to delve into what makes these sex scenes so small – and how to turn fiction into reality. According to author Tiffany Reisz, you need five tools to get amazing sex: tension, foreplay, emotion, creativity, and fearlessness. Lets break it down. “Even if you can create tension by simply withdrawing. Does this mean taking a break from manual stimulation and kissing them on the neck; or doing a sexy little striptease; or taking off one piece of clothing before you – you can build your arousal and add playfulness to your sex life. Basically, tension can be promoted by spending time.” -Rachel Kramer Bussel, editor of the Best Womens Erotica series. “The actual mechanics of sex are quite simple: tag A in slot B (or, tag A in slot A, I like slot A). So if you want to add spice to your sex, do it with dialogue. I remember something crystal clear, a former boyfriend whispered in my ear one night when he was behaving badly. Words have power. People talk in sex, in any other type of interaction, they can never get through their lips.” -Tiffany Reisz, international bestselling author of the Original Sin series. “Instead of just rushing into sex, saying Im going to [*fill in the blank]*. You can even increase the stakes by saying Ill lick you in your favorite place…if youre good, and increase the tension by keeping your partner in suspense, hoping theyre good enough to get the reward.” -Rachel Kramer Bussel. “When youre in the bedroom with someone, youre the most vulnerable person. Even if you have wild and crazy swinging sex, you may be the most exposed. Double your emotions and use them to enhance sex. Dont hide them. If you feel playful, build on role-playing. Feeling combative? Tell your partner what you want – or what you want to do to them – in explicit detail. Then go do it.” -Tara Sue Me