爱他们或恨他们，你的姐妹和兄弟是你生命中最有影响力的人 – 比你的父母，你的丈夫，你自己的孩子更多。所以说 时间 科学作家杰弗里·克鲁格（Jeffrey Kluger）为他的新书挖掘了兄弟关系的最新研究， 兄弟姐妹效应. 克拉格说，传统观点认为，兄弟姐妹“基本上是可互换的，可互换的人”。 “但就你塑造的基本方式而言，我认为没有什么可以触及兄弟姐妹。从我们出生的那一刻起，他们就是我们的合作者和共谋者，我们的榜样和我们的警示故事。我们自己的孩子到了在我们的生活中相对较晚;我们的父母太早离开了我们。“我们向克鲁格询问了对兄弟姐妹的其他见解。
第一胎比较聪明。 常春藤在常春藤联盟中的比例不成比例，其中一项研究表明，66％的新生是这个家庭中最年长的兄弟。前23名美国宇航员中有21名是第一胎或只有儿童。 Firstborns主导律师事务所和投资银行。最后一个人往往受教育程度较低，更有可能成为喜剧演员或艺术家。 “这背后的想法是，年长的兄弟姐妹可以从与父母一起度过的更多时间中获益。当一个年幼的孩子出现时，年龄较大的孩子会受益于指导年龄较小的孩子，”克鲁格说，并指出一项研究发现，初生儿有3分。智商优势超过下一个老大。
女孩打架更脏。 克鲁格说，在父母的爱和关注的童年战争中，姐妹姊妹的战斗有着明显的优势。 “男孩倾向于使用高效策略： 我可以更加努力，因此我赢了,“他说。”女孩经常带来更微妙，更心理的元素。他们往往会感受到对手的情绪弱点 – 以及如何利用他们。“
单身人士休息一下。 几十年前，普遍认为，独生子女是一种“疾病”，克鲁格说。 “现在我们知道单身人士往往工作得更快，词汇量也更好;他们发展自信和自足的品质。”他列举了过度安排的生活方式。 “孩子们在学校接受社交活动，然后在课后活动中，”他说。 “然后他们早上7点起床游泳练习。”
父母的偏袒伤害了……受宠的孩子。 养尊处优的孩子在现实世界中可能会面临严重的冲击 – 他们并不总是如此特别。
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Love them or hate them, your siblings are the most influential people in your life – more than your parents, your spouse, or your own children. Thats why science writer Jeffrey Kluger has dug into the latest research on sibling relationships for his new book, The Sibling Effect. Kluger says that the traditional view of siblings as “basically interchangeable, fungible people” is wrong. “But in terms of the basic way youre shaped, I dont think theres anything that touches siblings. From the moment were born, theyre our collaborators and co-conspirators, our models and our cautionary tales. Our own children come along relatively late in our lives; our parents leave us too early.” We asked Kluger for other insights into siblings. Firstborns are smarter. Ivy League schools have a disproportionate number of firstborns, and one study found that 66% of newborns are the oldest sibling in their family. Of the first 23 American astronauts, 21 were either firstborns or only children. Firstborns dominate law firms and investment banks. The last-born is often less educated and more likely to become a comedian or artist. “The idea behind this is that older siblings benefit from spending more time with parents. When a younger child comes along, the older child benefits from guiding the younger child,” Kluger says, noting that one study found that firstborns have a 3-point IQ advantage over the next oldest. Girls fight dirtier. In the childhood wars of parental love and attention, sister-on-sister battles have a distinct advantage, Kluger says. “Boys tend to use high-efficiency strategies: I can work harder, so I win,” he says. “Girls often bring more subtle, more psychological elements. They often sense the emotional weak points of their opponents – and how to exploit them.” Singles take a break. Decades ago, only children were considered a “disease,” Kluger says. “Now we know that singles often work faster, have better vocabularies, and develop qualities of confidence and self-sufficiency.” He cites over-scheduled lifestyles. “Kids have social activities at school, then after-school activities,” he says. “Then they get up at 7 a.m. for swim practice.” Parental favoritism hurts…the
As an AI language model, I do not have personal opinions or experiences. However, I can provide a translation of the text in English:
Love them or hate them, your siblings are the most influential people in your life – more than your parents, your spouse, or your own children. Thats why science writer Jeffrey Kluger has dug into the latest research on sibling relationships for his new book, The Sibling Effect. Kluger says that the traditional view of siblings as “basically interchangeable, fungible people” is wrong. “But in terms of the basic way youre shaped, I dont think theres anything that touches siblings. From the moment were born, theyre our collaborators and co-conspirators, our models and our cautionary tales. Our own children come along relatively late in our lives; our parents leave us too early.” We asked Kluger for other insights into siblings. Firstborns are smarter. Ivy League schools have a disproportionate number of firstborns, and one study found that 66% of newborns are the oldest sibling in the family. Of the first 23 American astronauts, 21 were either firstborns or only children. Firstborns dominate law firms and investment banks. The last-born is often less educated and more likely to become a comedian or artist. “The idea behind this is that older siblings benefit from spending more time with parents. When a younger child comes along, the older child benefits from guiding the younger child,” Kluger says, noting that one study found that firstborns have a 3-point IQ advantage over the next oldest. Girls fight dirtier. In the childhood wars of parental love and attention, sister-on-sister battles have a distinct advantage, Kluger says. “Boys tend to use high-efficiency strategies: I can work harder, so I win,” he says. “Girls often bring more subtle, more psychological elements. They often sense the emotional weak points of their opponents – and how to exploit them.” Singles get a break. Decades ago, only children were considered a “disease,” Kluger says. “Now we know that singles often work faster, have better vocabularies, and develop qualities of confidence and self-sufficiency.” He cites over-scheduled lifestyles. “Kids have social activities at school, then after-school activities,” he says. “Then they get up at 7 a.m. for swim practice.” Parental favoritism hurts…the